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The Summer Reveal Jun. 11, 2010
I drove past an advertisement for a gym the other day that I thought was exactly spot-on. It simply read, “It’s so amazing how all your clothes from last summer seemed to shrink.” That’s one clever copywriter and probably someone who has also had an experience with the battle with the bulge. I’ll admit when I was picking out clothes to wear Memorial Day weekend in Avalon I asked myself (unfortunately more than once), “I thought I wore this last summer and I remember it actually looking good? What happened?”
Then reality set in. The reality of a winter filled with excuses of why I couldn’t get to my training sessions. The nights I went straight home to my couch after a tiring day instead of getting an extra workout in or doing some much needed cardio. You can’t hide behind summer clothes—they reveal every excuse and every time you chose to put something in your mouth that you know you should have passed on. The past is the past and now it’s time to stop the complaining and start doing what’s needed to get back into those white skinny jeans or those shorts that you swore buttoned last year. And when (that’s right I said when, not if) you stay on track imagine how many fabulous clothing options you’ll have to wear Labor Day weekend.
Tara Behan Senior Editor Main Line Today Magazine
There's No Quick Fix Mar. 23, 2010
Once Again. . .There’s No Quick Fix
I work in an office with a female to male ratio of 10:2. So naturally the office chatter among the women—when we’re not talking about each other—always seems to come around to the subject of weight loss and food. Here’s a recap of one such conversation with a fellow co-worker and myself:
Co-worker (with a super-excited look that I’ve never seen her have at work): Oh my God, my hairdresser lost a ton of weight. She looks fabulous! She said she got a weight loss pill from her doctor.
Me: Yep, my friend got the same prescription right before her wedding. She wanted to fit into her form-fitting gown. She lost about 25 pounds and looked amazing, but. . .
Co-worker (cutting me off mid-sentence): We have to get it. We have to get on that pill. I have a vacation coming up in two months and I need to get into a bathing suit.
(***At this point I’m afraid she’s going to start hyperventilating she’s so excited.)
Me: In addition to taking the pill, my friend also barely ate and worked out twice a day. She said the pill made her really moody and once she stopped taking it, she gained all the weight back. Your hairdresser seemed to leave out those facts.
Co-worker (with a devastated look on her face): Oh, I was afraid there was a catch to it.
Me: We know better than to think there’s a magic weight-loss trick. All we have to do is watch what we eat and exercise.
Co-worker (still with that “You just kicked my puppy” expression on her face): I know, I know: eat healthy and exercise regularly. Why don’t we just do it then???
And that, my friends, is the million-dollar question!
Happy New Year! Feb. 18, 2010
No, I’m not crazy. I do realize that we’re already six weeks into 2010. And I had great expectations for this year, but life got in the way. I was sidetracked from my fitness resolutions by things like unexpected family deaths, upheavals at work, never-ending deadlines, and snowstorms (and more snowstorms, and well you get the point).
I realized that there’s always going to be something that could keep me from getting to Vertex, working out and eating healthy. I have to do something that I’ve never done before: make being healthy and active a priority.
So when Fat Tuesday rolled around a few days ago my first thought was, “Well isn’t this appropriate I’m feeling quite large today” followed by my second thought, “I’m giving up making excuses for not working out for Lent.” (Believe me, giving this up will surely be a sacrifice for me.)
Today is my January 1. All the things I wrote about in my previous blog I will master. That’s all for now, I have an appointment at Vertex I have to get to.
New Year, New Me? Jan. 07, 2010
Questionable. That’s how I’ve been feeling about making resolutions for 2010. I could easily relate to what one of my friends wrote on his Facebook status New Year’s Eve, “I don’t make New Year’s resolutions because I prefer not to set myself up for failure.”
It’s now January 7 and after the past week of being bombarded with non-stop commercials, emails, segments on the Today Show and web advertisements taunting me about making, and more importantly, keeping fitness resolutions. . . I’m finally ready to start my new year.
I’m not going to fail because I’m not setting unattainable goals. Instead of taking an all or nothing attitude, I’m taking small steps toward a healthier lifestyle that I will build upon. The first three that I’m instituting include:
1. Drink more water. I’m getting off the sugary stuff (bye-bye to two of my favorites Coke and Snapple Lemon Ice Tea) and replacing it with the recommended daily intake of eight, 8-ounce glasses of water. I actually love an ice-cold glass of water. Room temperature water, not so much.
2. Start eating breakfast. This is something I never do. I can barely get to work on time as it is let alone taking the time out to eat in the morning. This will be an adjustment, but I know I can do it. I’ll pack my breakfast and my lunch if I have to.
3. Exercise three times a week (at least). I’d like to build this up so that by June I’m doing some kind of physical activity five days a week. I’ll be here at Vertex twice a week strength training and the third day I’ll do another type of exercise like yoga or cardio.
I think these “resolutions” are more than attainable. What’s that saying—“Slow and steady wins the race”? Well, I’m slowly and steadily going to make this my fittest year yet!
What fitness resolutions have you made this year? Comment below and we can motivate each other!
Cheers to a New (and fitter) Year!
The Perfect Day of Eating: Part 2 Jun. 05, 2009
Here's the continuation of my previous blog. Following is a breakdown of a recommended daily diet from the opinions of nutritionists from a Prevention magazine article. I'm going to try following it for at least a week. I'll report back and let you know how I made out.
6:30 to 7 AM: Wake Up with Water
“Before you put coffee, tea, or food into your body, it's best to first break your fast with a glass of water with lemon,” says Ashley Koff, RD, a nutritionist in Los Angeles and founder of ashleykoffapproved.com. When you sleep, Koff says, your body isn't just abstaining from food but from water too. “Because many vitamins are water-soluble, having a glass before you eat will help your body better absorb nutrients from food.” The acidity of the lemon helps rebalance your digestive tract by making it alkaline, allowing “good” bacteria in your intestines to thrive and facilitate optimal nutrient absorption.
7 AM: Short Walk
This is your ideal fat-burning window, says Koff. A light bout of cardio soon after you wake up and before you eat-a 20-minute walk with the dog, jumping jacks, or running up and down stairs in your home, etc.-taps into your body's energy reserves.read more...
The Perfect Day of Eating—Part 1 May 29, 2009
One of these days I’m going
to go to a nutritionist and have them outline an eating plan for me. A very
specific eating plan where they tell me what I should cut out and what I should
be adding into my diet. Since I haven’t gotten around to making this happen, I
was happy to see this article in Prevention magazine: The Perfect Day of Eating. The writer interviewed three
nutritionists who counsel real women on the simple secrets of smarter meal
planning.
Here’s
what they found out: 1) Have a meal or small snack every 3 to 4 hours. This
fuels your metabolism and helps prevent binges and blood sugar crashes. 2)
Combine protein (meat, fish, beans, nuts, eggs, dairy) and fiber (whole grains,
fruits, vegetables) at every meal. When eaten together, these foods take longer
to digest than simpler carbohydrates, so you stay fuller, longer. 3) Get up,
move around, and drink water often. This daily meal plan has a wide range of
calories (from about 1,550 to 2,100); if you’re active you can go toward the
higher end of the range.
Finally, remember that even
the “perfect day” isn’t perfect if you eat the same thing over and over again.
Use creativity to mix and match your own delicious, healthy meals.
***My next blog will
continue with an hourly breakdown of what you should eat throughout the day
from the Prevention article.
Parting thought: “Finish
each day and be done with it. You have done what you could; some blunders and
absurdities have crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new
day; you shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered
with your old nonsense.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
Ditchin’ the Cola May 22, 2009
I once thought I had an addiction. It was an addiction that
I couldn’t even fathom kicking: drinking soda. Drinking a 20-ounce Coke (I’m
definitely not a Pepsi gal, it has to be Coke) at least twice a day was part of
my routine for the past couple of years. Sometimes I would substitute a regular
lunch for a 20-ouncer and a soft pretzel. . . .ahhh, carbs and caffeine can’t
get healthier than that, right? Wrong.
I knew with each bottle of Coke I consumed that I was
pumping more than 300 calories into my body. Empty calories that weren’t doing
anything remotely near healthy for my diet. One soda contains 10 teaspoons of
sugar (that’s 100% of our recommended daily intake) and plenty of high fructose
corn syrup. What I loved about Coke though was that it made almost everything I
ate taste better whether it was popcorn at the movies or a sandwich at lunch. I
also loved how full it made me feel. I stupidly convinced myself that drinking
a Coke was curbing my appetite.
When I would tell people how much soda I drank they would
cringe. I got lectured on how it ruins your teeth, leads to the breaking down
of your bones and especially how it packs on the pounds. One friend went so far
as to emailing a list of websites devoted to how bad soda is for your health.
One fact in particular from these websites made me pause: soda can clean your
toilet, eliminate rust from a car bumper and remove grease from clothing. Yuck!
The bottom line was if I wanted to lose weight, I’d have to
cut my ties with Coke. It wasn’t easy at first. I got headaches that I’m
assuming was from not having the caffeine. I felt lost without saying “I’ll
have a Coke with that” when I went out to lunch. Day by day it got easier and
after almost three months of breaking my daily routine of guzzling Coke, I’m
happy to admit I don’t miss it. The cravings are long gone. I’m certain a
percentage of the weight I’ve lost so far is due to changing my beverage
choices. Now my beverage of choice is water —something I never believed I would
crave, but I do now.
So if you’re reading this and you’re thinking I’d never be
able to give up soda, think again. Try it and you just may surprise yourself.
Parting thought: Be not afraid of going slowly; be afraid
only of standing still. — Chinese Proverb
New York State of Mind May 15, 2009
When you eat out in the Big Apple the menu clearly states
how many calories are in each dish. So if you’re at Burger King and you’re
craving a Triple Whopper with Cheese you’ll know that you’re consuming 1250
calories. Or if you are a fan of the fried macaroni and cheese at The
Cheesecake Factory, you’ll know that if you clear the plate you’ll have eaten
1570 calories (and even though it doesn’t say it on the menu this dish has a
colossal 69 grams of saturated fat which is more than you should eat in 3 1/2
days).
Public-health advocates and the Senate are trying to pass
nationwide laws that all chain restaurants put the calorie counts on the menu.
Currently only New York City, West Chester County, NY and King County, WA, have
mandatory calorie counts on menus. A recent study confirmed that 82% of New
Yorkers said the new in-your-face nutrition data have affected their ordering.
When can mandatory calorie counts on menus be implemented on
the Main Line? I know that I would definitely think twice about ordering some
of the (ahem) not-so-healthy stuff I order if I knew how many calories came
along with it. Would chomping down the Quesadilla Burger at Applebee’s at 1440
calories really be worth being on the treadmill for hours working it off? I
don’t think so. Sometimes I have to be shamed into making the right decision
and staring back at calorie counts definitely would make me think twice before
placing my order.
Parting Thought: “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence,
then, is not an act but a habit.”— Aristotle
Wise man, wise words May 08, 2009
Although I’ve been doing well so far I know from past
experience of trying to lose weight and exercise that it usually goes well for
a few weeks then things start slipping.
It starts with a missed workout here, then a chocolate donut
there and then it’s one big slippery slope of being off the track of healthy
living.
So I started to research advice on how to stay motivated and
I came across this quote from Czech Olympian Emil Zatopek which I think sums it
up quite succinctly:
"If one can stick to the
training throughout the many long years, then willpower is no longer a problem. It's raining? That
doesn't matter. I am tired? That's besides the point. It's simply that I
just have to."
I’d add just one thing to this great Zatopek thought for
myself: Just stop whining and get moving.
****Eight weeks into my training
and eating modification (I think this term sounds better than diet) I’ve lost
11 pounds. I think they say the average is two pounds a week, which means I
should be at 16 pounds, but I’m down more than10 and I’m going to be happy with
that. Plus, muscle weighs more than fat and I know I’ve had to gain muscle
after almost two months at training at Vertex. I can’t wait to see what the
next few months bring.
Working the Whole Body May 01, 2009
I love working out at Vertex Fitness. Dwayne, Chris and
Corinne and the whole staff are phenomenal personal trainers. They’re
encouraging, patient, knowledgeable, and somehow know what my body is capable
of (even when I’m not even sure myself). There’s been days I’ve walked through
the door at Vertex and have totally not been in the mood or felt like I’ve had
the strength to get through five minutes let alone 30 minutes of a workout, but
one of these guys have gotten me through it and I’ve left every time feeling
re-energized.
I do have one complaint: I wish spot training problem areas
really worked.
At Vertex they train the whole body: you work both your
upper and lower body during the same session. The entire body responds to the
weight training and since every body is unique, every body reflects the effects
of the weight training differently. Exercising the entire body is the proper,
and only, way to achieve an overall stronger and fitter body.
So I’m glad I’m not wasting my time doing 100 crunches for
those flatter abs I’m dying for or spending precious time performing countless
lounges for the perfect butt. I’m lucky to be working with professionals that
understand the body and know how to properly train it. I can, however, continue
to hope that my “problem” areas start responding faster to all my hard work.
There’s nothing wrong with wishful hoping, right?
Parting Thought: A man who wants
something will find a way; a man who doesn’t will find an excuse. —Stephan
Dolley Jr.
Don't Ignore Meals Apr. 24, 2009
My Most Ignored Meal of the Day
A “Speed Up Your Metabolism” article in Women’s Health
magazine caught my eye the other day as I was flipping through the current
issue. My metabolism could definitely benefit from a little boost so I kept
reading.
Of course, the first tip I didn’t do: eat a good breakfast.
I’ve read a 100 times how breakfast is the most important meal of the day. But
I’m not a morning person. At all. I can barely get myself out of bed, showered
and to work on time every day. Adding time in to make a healthy breakfast would
require getting up even earlier, which I’m not so sure I could do.
Until I read this fact: according to a study in the American Journal of Epidemiology,
volunteers who reported regularly skipping breakfast had 4.5 times the risk of
obesity as those who took the time to eat. That statistic made it suddenly more
appealing to lose some precious sleep time to prepare breakfast.
So I’m going to try to not be so much of a night owl and get
to bed earlier so I can get up earlier and get some breakfast time in. (There
was also an article in the magazine that stressed the importance of getting
eight hours of sleep a night—another thing that I never do.)
Beware, co-workers, I may be extra cranky from sleep
deprivation the next few weeks. At least, now, I’ll have an excuse for my
crankiness!
Parting Thought:
"You've got to say, I think that if I keep working at
this and want it badly enough I can have it. It's called perseverance." -
Lee Iacocca
Say Something Nice Apr. 17, 2009
If you don’t have something nice to say . . .
I’m a few weeks into working out at Vertex and eating
healthier and I’m feeling good. I’ve lost a few pounds; averaging about a pound
or two a week (although I know not to be too worried about what the scale says
because I’m gaining muscle through the strength training).
I’ve been through the weight loss process before so I know
it’s not instantaneous. It took time to put the weight on and it’s definitely
going to take time to get the weight off. Rational thinking like this, however,
doesn’t always work for me. I want it to show right now that I’ve been really
working hard. I want to fit back into the jeans I used to love to wear before
my weight shot up—tonight! I want people to start noticing today that my body
is changing.
I’m learning that along with will power and determination
you also have to have patience when it comes to weight loss. As much as I want
it to, the weight is not just going to fall off of me. I just have to keep
working hard and eating right and patiently wait to see the results that I’m
dying to see.
In the meantime, I’ll find solace in the little things like
when a friend sent me a text message saying that she saw pictures of me on
Facebook and thought my face looked like it had thinned out. So even though I’m
not trying to lose weight in my face, I’ll take that compliment for now and be
happy with it. Which brings me to another point—if you know a person who is
working out and trying to lose weight pay them a compliment. Even if it’s just
a “keep up the good work” a few kind words of encouragement can go a long way
when you’re on the long road of weight loss.
Parting Thought:
If you don't have confidence, you'll always find a way not
to win. — Carl Lewis
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